It sounds like your friend is about to mess up a good thing because he is worried about what people think. He needs to be a little more secure with himself and how he feels about his girlfriend.

He shouldn’t care what anybody thinks. I am very fit also, and I am married to an absolutely gorgeous, curvy woman. She’s a size 16, and is very lovely. (Actually, she is 4 months pregnant right now. So tell your friend if he ever gets married and plans to have kids, he is GOING to have a big woman in his life for nine months at some point!)

I love what I see when I look at her, so who cares what anybody else thinks. I think your friend needs to ask himself if he really likes what he sees when he looks at his girlfriend. If other people’s thoughts are more important to him, then maybe he really doesn’t.

He should probably ask himself whether he should let her go, so that she can be with someone who actually likes her for who she is. Unless he changes, he’s just going to bring down her self-esteem.

Sorry to sound so harsh, but he needs to grow up man.

Let me tell you something, with all the anorexia scares out there, be happy with yourself. You even got a guy happy with your size so the only thing you have to do is be happy with him. Bigger is always better I’m 5′4 190! I love me and So what if I need to lose as long as my guy is comfortable with it! If you are still insecure about your weight then ask him to take long walks with you or work out, or have more ***!

Here is my answer. He shouldn’t worry about what people think and if he does then he doesn’t deserve her.

What does it matter? People are gonna find things to talk about, if she wasnt plus size. As long as they are happy it doesnt matter.

as long as you are happy with your girlfriend, then don’t worry about what people think and if your friend can’t accept your girlfriend, then he’s not a true friend of yours.

Love is in the eyes of the beholder. People are staring because they can see what they have, and wish it were them. Why would he even care what people think. I would say, I got mine, go get yours.

You are right, there is nothing wrong with that, people might look but they will always stare no matter what because they are nousy, and only ignorant people will think is odd, but it those matter, because there is absolutley nothing wrong with that and she has te best that is her personality ….im sure you can agree how many thin beautiful girls are not really like that inside and have horrible attitudes , defenetly agree with you

No you are not wrong. If you love the person it should not matter what they look like. If you are a guy and are that insecure about yourself that you need to have a thin girl to make you look good, he is the one with the problem, not her.

She is a plus size woman and there is nothing wrong with that. Though I will have to say they are considered obese to doctors. At her height with her weight I am sure she does look a little thinker than a 14 or 16 but that is not even the issue. You need to look at your friend and ask him this. do you like her? Are you happy with her? If he says yes to both then Tell him to quit acting like an idiot and be with her. If people look at you two o well. they just do not understand and they more then likely couldn’t

Trust me…lots of SKINNY girls dont even have the face. He is fortunate!!! Tell him to count his blessings!