What are the reasons why I attract such men?
purringout asked:
I am in my twenties. I work in a bank, have a regular column in my local newspaper, and am nearly a college graduate. But despite those successes, I still attract the very same men I attracted when I was in high school. I attract many older men (50’s and older) and many men who happen to be married. I often reject such men and I never go out with them. I have a very nice, warm personality, and I also look a certain way- I am babyfaced, pale, thin/petite. Sometimes I am still mistaken for being a teenager when I wear casual clothes. What are some possible reasons why I attract men who seemingly want to take advantage of me? I am not even the flirty type.
No, I am very serious… I don’t mean take advantage of me in terms of financial means, and when I mean that I look like a teenager, I don’t mean that in a necessarily positive way. I also believe that if a married man hits on another woman, it’s very disrespectful of… everyone involved, and it’s not fair.
I don’t consider myself full of myself. And if you think that way, then fine. I can’t change your opinion about what you think you know of me.
I am in my twenties. I work in a bank, have a regular column in my local newspaper, and am nearly a college graduate. But despite those successes, I still attract the very same men I attracted when I was in high school. I attract many older men (50’s and older) and many men who happen to be married. I often reject such men and I never go out with them. I have a very nice, warm personality, and I also look a certain way- I am babyfaced, pale, thin/petite. Sometimes I am still mistaken for being a teenager when I wear casual clothes. What are some possible reasons why I attract men who seemingly want to take advantage of me? I am not even the flirty type.
No, I am very serious… I don’t mean take advantage of me in terms of financial means, and when I mean that I look like a teenager, I don’t mean that in a necessarily positive way. I also believe that if a married man hits on another woman, it’s very disrespectful of… everyone involved, and it’s not fair.
I don’t consider myself full of myself. And if you think that way, then fine. I can’t change your opinion about what you think you know of me.
When I mean that they are attracted to me, I mean that they are ASKING ME OUT and/or ASKING ME FOR MY PHONE NUMBER.
Seriously!
I know that some men are just nice and friendly. They are not the same person I am discussing in this forum. I think you better read in between the lines before you become more assumptuous of your conclusion.
I mean, same people* lol at my grammar
Oh yeah, by the way, my 19-year-old co-worker (who looks 14) is going through the same thing, and tired of it.
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